Strap-On-Me Desirous Adjustable Strap-On Harness

Strap-On-Me Desirous Adjustable Strap-On Harness for Pegging in Canada

The Strap-On-Me Desirous Adjustable Strap-On Harness combines a padded back belt, bare-bottom construction and three interchangeable rings for comfortable, customizable pegging and partnered strap-on play. Designed to fit approximately XS through XXL, its front and rear straps adjust around the hips and thighs while allowing the dildo to rest directly against the wearer’s body for a closer sensory connection. Available in Canada from Discreet Life with secure checkout and discreet shipping.

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Redesigned for Improved Fit and Movement

The Desirous Harness has been redesigned according to supplier details to provide a more fluid and comfortable wearing experience. Adjustable straps at the front and back allow the harness to be shaped around different body proportions while keeping the attachment point properly positioned.

Padded Back Belt for Comfortable Support

A wide, contoured back belt rests across the lower back and hips to distribute support more evenly than narrow strap-only harnesses. The padded construction creates a softer contact point while allowing the bare-bottom design to remain open and unrestricted.

Three Interchangeable Ring Sizes

The Desirous includes three removable rings measuring approximately 4.5 cm, 5.5 cm and 6.5 cm in diameter. This gives you more flexibility when pairing the harness with compatible dildos of different widths.

Press-stud fasteners allow the rings to be added or removed without permanently changing the harness. Measure the part of the dildo that must pass through the ring rather than only the widest portion of its base.

Direct-to-Body Dildo Positioning

The open front design positions the base of the dildo directly against the wearer’s body. This creates a closer connection between the harness, attachment and wearer while reducing the amount of material between the dildo base and the skin.

Adjustable XS–XXL Fit

The supplied size guide lists an approximate hip range of 88 to 137 cm and an adjustable leg range of 34 to 94 cm. The straps can be refined independently to improve positioning around different hip, thigh and body proportions.

Key Features

• Redesigned adjustable strap-on harness
• One-size fit covering approximately XS–XXL
• Suggested hip range: approximately 88–137 cm
• Suggested thigh range: approximately 34–94 cm
• Bare-bottom construction
• Wide padded back belt for additional comfort
• Adjustable front, rear and thigh straps
• Direct-to-body dildo positioning
• Three removable and interchangeable rings
• Included ring diameters: approximately 4.5 cm, 5.5 cm and 6.5 cm
• Press studs for adding or removing rings
• Compatible with suitably sized Strap-On-Me dildos according to supplier details
• Suitable for pegging and partnered strap-on play
• Golden bronze leatherette finish
• Cotton storage pouch included

Compare Similar Strap-On-Me Harnesses

Compare the Desirous with other adjustable Strap-On-Me harnesses based on ring options, fit system and overall design. The current Desirous harness is excluded from the chart.

Explore More Strap-On Options

Build a complete strap-on setup by comparing alternative harness constructions and selecting a dildo that matches one of the Desirous ring sizes.

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Pairs Well With

Add the essentials needed for more comfortable penetration and convenient care of the dildo selected for your harness.

• Water-Based Lubricants — provide versatile glide with broad compatibility across common dildo materials.
• Sex Toy Cleaners — support hygienic cleaning and routine maintenance after partnered use.

Technical Specifications

• Brand: Strap-On-Me
• Product: Desirous Leatherette Harness
• Product Type: Adjustable interchangeable-ring strap-on harness
• Fit: One size, approximately XS–XXL
• French Size Range: 34–44
• USA Size Range: 2–12
• UK Size Range: 4–16
• Suggested Hip Range: Approximately 88–137 cm
• Suggested Thigh Range: Approximately 34–94 cm
• Material Composition: 95% polyurethane, 2% nitrile, 2% iron, 0.5% polyester and 0.5% elastane
• Cut: Bare-bottom adjustable harness
• Back Support: Wide padded belt
• Straps: Adjustable at the front and rear
• Included Rings: Three removable rings
• Ring Diameters: Approximately 4.5 cm, 5.5 cm and 6.5 cm
• Ring Attachment: Press studs
• Colour: Golden bronze
• Storage: Cotton pouch included
• Dildo Included: No

How to Use

• Loosen the waistband and thigh straps before putting on the harness.
• Position the padded back belt comfortably across the lower back and hips.
• Secure and adjust the waist and thigh straps without overtightening.
• Select the ring that most closely matches the dildo’s insert-through diameter.
• Attach the ring securely using the press studs.
• Insert the compatible dildo and adjust its position against the body.
• Test the harness with slow movement before partnered play.
• Apply a suitable lubricant and begin gradually.

Care Instructions

• Mix warm water with a small amount of mild soap.
• Dampen a soft cloth and squeeze out excess water.
• Gently wipe the entire faux leather surface.
• Avoid soaking the harness or leaving moisture around the metal components.
• Allow every component to air dry completely before storage.
• Place the clean, dry harness inside the supplied cotton pouch.

Trust & Discretion

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